Practice Goodbyes at Home
Drop-off can be hard, especially at the start of the school year. A calm and steady routine can help your child feel safe. It may take time, but drop-off often gets easier with practice.
When your child is calm, talk about what will happen at drop-off.
You can say:
“First, we will walk to your classroom. Then I will give you a big hug. Then I will say goodbye and come back after class is over.”
You can also use a special handshake, hug, or short phrase, such as “You’ve got this,” to help your child feel ready.
Keep Drop-Off Short
A simple routine can make drop-off easier.
Try to:
- Use the same goodbye each day
- Tell your child when you will come back
- Stay calm and confident
- Leave after saying goodbye
- Let teachers help your child join the class
Pick Up Tips
A warm pick-up helps your child feel proud of their day. Celebrate small wins, such as making a friend, finishing an art project, or being brave at drop-off.
This helps your child feel good about school and look forward to coming back.
Questions to Ask After Preschool
On the way home, ask clear and simple questions. This can help your child talk about their day.
You can ask:
- What was the best part of your day?
- Who did you play with?
- What was your favorite thing about playing outside?
- What songs did you sing?
- What stories did your teacher read today?